How can you tell if you are being too needy...

I want a chart.

I am sick, tired, achy. Baby is sick and same. DH has decided that my need for sympathy and assistance is my problem. I have mentioned that he has hurt my feelings. Mostly I get, well it is your problem not mine.

ok

I figure if I am mentioning that MY feelings have been hurt, the human thing to do would be to at least offer some compassion or nice-ness ESPECIALLY IF IT SOMEONE YOU ARE MARRIED TO!

Is that being too needy?? Is it me. Do I need my husband to be nice to me? (I think so)